June 28th - July 7th, Chapel Hill and Monroe NC


Friday-Drive to Chapel Hill NC June 28
Heading to Chapel Hill was a bit hairy, I mean hilly. There was one stretch of road as we were leaving Pisgah National forest that had a 6-mile, 6% down grade.  It is the first stretch of road I can recall that had three runaway truck ramps in a row and at one point lights you passed under that flashed if your speed was too high as you were heading into a curve.  It is just for instances like that we have turned off the verbal warnings on our GPS.  It is worse listening to her telling you "Speed Warning" over and over and "Sharp Curve ahead" than just reading the signs and driving responsibly.  Although with 13,000 pounds pushing you down the hill Tony's hands do sweat a bit.  The integrated brake controller and exhaust brake on the new truck do help a lot too. There were ridges full of pale pink rhododendrons, majestic magnolia trees, and roadside stretches of day-lilies in peak bloom.  I am sure the plentiful seasonal rains helped with the colorful show.  

Saturday-Raleigh NC June 29
One of my godsons (nephew, Jeff) lives in Raleigh and I have not seen him in a long time.  He will be turning 30 later this year so it seemed fitting that we should look him up.  AND look UP at him since he is 6'8" tall.  He and Ami are the same age but he is almost 20 inches taller than her!  We met Jeff and his girlfriend Jenny near their office place Digital Advising Solutions to catch up and have dinner.  They own their own business providing
 reasonably priced marketing, advertising and website solutions to new and growing companies looking to increase their business via improved, streamlined, more effective online presence.  They seem really passionate about their business and even passed out business cards at the brewery.  Raleigh Beer Garden has over 350 active taps in a four-floor brewery that has indoor and outdoor seating with corn hole games and music. 

On one floor the bar has taps with nothing but domestic beers and another has only taps of imported beers.  There is also a full regular bar on the first floor.  Looking into the keg room was quite phenomenal.  Their beer menu is only available on line so you must search out your selection to tell the server or they can provide a selection but they do not have a menu.  Jeff suggested their website needs help because the search features were basically non-existent.  You just scrolled through a large list.   The manager was quite receptive to suggestions and offered to pass the business card and info to the owners.  The thin crust pizzas, beer battered fries, beer cheese dip, and 
brisket sandwiches were all delicious and we would highly recommend Raleigh Beer Garden if you are in Raleigh.  We were too stuffed to entertain the thought of gelato even though the place Jenny suggested is owned by a parent company in France.  PLUS there was no parking for blocks being it was a Saturday.  As we cruised we talked about the various neighborhoods and they pointed out the lovely town square and grounds around the capital building.  Jenny snagged a parking spot just off the square so we could peruse.  It was quite an interesting interlude.  We saw: an inebriated man being detained by police who had hauled him away from his vehicle, historic 
buildings with beautiful architecture, statues, and a groom and his groomsmen riding electric scooters around the square while the bride with her entourage walked to the shade of the trees for wedding pictures.  Some of this you would never see on an organized tour.  It pays to have locals for tour guides especially when they are family and the price is right, i.e. FREE. 


On the way to Raleigh we cruised through University of North Carolina Campus.  It is America's Oldest State University and celebrated its 225th year in 2015.  The stately brick buildings with white banisters/trim and the narrow streets belied an earlier by gone era of the town.  The streets were short, and the campus seemed compact, but a little confusing.  We never did find the visitor center! 



Sunday-Durham NC-Duke University June 30
I am a big Duke Basketball fan.  So when in Durham... go to the Duke Campus.  The Duke University Chapel built in 1930-35 and designed by architect Julian Abele, who was the first black architect to graduate from the University of Pennsylvania, is a highlight of the campus.  Tony had a brilliant idea to just attend mass at the chapel.  One problem - the chapel in an ecumenical (non-denominational) place of worship.  They have rotating services from different faiths.  However in the Divinity School Building there is the Goodson Catholic Chapel with mass at 11 am and there are tours of the historic Duke Chapel on Sundays at 12:15:  perfect timing. 

GPS directions take you on the road right up to the chapel and it is a beautiful sight with the main tower standing majestically among the trees.  Problem: there is no parking there.  Luckily some students told us the name of the parking structure at the backside of the chapel and Google maps had no problem finding it.  That is why you leave 75 minutes early for a 40-minute drive so you can get lost, park, and still be on time for mass.  The Goodson Chapel was what I would call Gothic Light.  The window shapes and scroll work blended in with the rest of the campus but without stained glass or dark woodwork, the place was light, bright and refreshing.  Also refreshing
 was the involvement and participation  of so many students.  This was definitely a service in the 21st century - all of the choir members and the pianist had their music on their tablets!  The student musicians were enthusiastic (violin, 2 guitars, Bass, percussion on a square box that was both seat and instrument), and two of the students took turns at the piano with the director.  As I looked around all of the students were actually singing and reciting the prayers in addition to acting as ushers and lectors.   Then a very large student sat in front of me.  He was pushing at least 6 1/2 feet and about a yard wide at the shoulders.  It dawned on me that this is a basketball college, so why should I be surprised if a giant sat in front of me.  It turned out that he did play undergrad basketball elsewhere and was now doing graduate work at Duke. 

The tour of the chapel was short but interesting and there is even a Kids Scavenger Hunt and Trivia sheet.  The Duke Family (Tobacco and Textiles) donated the money for the chapel and the university on the condition the name be changed from Trinity College to Duke University.  Constructed of volcanic bluestone with 77 stained glass windows, stone towers and pointed arches, it has intricate carvings of oak and lime wood (not citrus) on the altars.  All are a testament to the craftsmanship of a bygone era.  Many of the Duke heirs are buried in a memorial chapel at the side of the church and their wives and others important to the university history and heritage are buried in marked tombs in the
basement.  Legend goes that craftsman usually hid a mouse carving in the church, but no one had ever found the one in this chapel.  It is supposedly good luck to have a church mouse so in later years a woodworker added a small mouse to the side of the front altar.  The statue of Andrew Jackson outside the front door was recently removed because the University got tired of cleaning off the graffiti.   Unfortunately the architect never set foot in his building because not many knew a black man designed it and he did not want to embarrass the Duke Family.  
Both events are sad testaments to cultural downfalls.




Monday-Sunday- July 1-7 Cane Creek County Park Monroe, NC
This week our destination and objective is all about visiting with our kids, Adam and Ami/Brian.  Originally they were going to pitch tents and camp on our site with us, but with the weather in the upper 90's and humidity to match that did not seem like fun.  They opted to stay at their house and it worked out as they also had house guests from Michigan for the July 4th holiday weekend.  So we drove the 20 minutes back and forth a lot but their air-conditioned house was a fitting place for a lot of fun.  We ate a
lot thanks to Ami and Brian pre-planning and prepping many great dips and snacks and a great shish kebob dinner that we grilled out at camp.  
Some drank a lot including a huge variety of specialty shots with Apple, Vanilla and Mesquite flavored Crown Royal.  We were quite happy to have the excuse that we still had to drive back to camp on the curvy, narrow, no shoulder roads in the dark to exempt ourselves from most of the shots.  You know you are getting older (or maybe smarter) when that happens.  But we figure you are never too old to go on a trip to Dairy Queen!  Do you know they even have Dairy Queen Blizzard flights?  You can sample three mini blizzards for one price.  We really have to get out more!!  Ami even got their Dog (Memphis) a DQ. 

Ladder Ball, and Yard Yahtzee entertained us for several hours on a couple of occasions at their house and at camp.  Our inflatable kayaks actually saw the light of day for the first time in a couple of summers too.   One camper also let Ami and Adam try her inflatable stand up paddle board.  They both did really well.  Friends, Phil and Cherie, from our Alaska trip last summer were starting their summer travels from Sea Brook Island SC and came to the same camp for a few nights.  We had fun catching up, getting to know them better and teaching them to play ladder ball.  Hopefully we can visit them near their home south of Charleston sometime in the future. 

Our campsite view over the lake was great but faced the afternoon/setting sun.  The air conditioners were going pretty much non-stop.  The nearest Home Depot (south in Lancaster, SC) and Harbor Freight (North in Monroe NC) got some business when we purchased 90% blockage sunscreen, and suction cups and grommets to make our own sunscreen for that big back window.  Tony added extra grommets along the perimeter so that we can move the screen around depending on which way we may
be facing at future campsites.  The grassy expanse leading to the lake from our camp looked great and inviting but unfortunately the geese loved it also.  The shoreline along most of the lake was lined with rocks and retention netting so we stuck to the groomed sandy beach for our water forays.  Luckily our site also had a couple of huge trees that we were under which helped cut the sun-load but the site was a raised cement pad that made it kind of precarious if you ventured off of the pad.  We were rather close to the pump house so occasionally there was an unpleasant aroma so it worked out well that we spent a lot of time at the air-conditioned house.  The choice of camping facilities near them is very limited though. 



Speaking of getting older: one evening the kids knowing that I like cooking shows found one for us to watch.  Get this, it was called BONG APETIT.  No that is not a typo!  The judges smoked in between courses and all of the courses included CBD or THC products in crystalline, or powder and many varieties that supposedly had different flavors.  Yes, they had major cases of the munchies by the time the show was done.  I was dumbfounded!  But I guess I shouldn't have been surprised when there are CBD establishments on every corner all over the country even in small backwoods towns.  They even make dog treats with CBD.  I know this because their rescue dog Memphis (Beagle/Daschund) is a consumer to control excitability, therefore barking. 

We played several games of cribbage with Adam, but his luck was no match for ours this trip.  Adam's aggravation board game got a work out too.  The heat forced us indoors more than planned so more movies played and my favorite was "Mall Cop" which I had never seen.  Great for some family laughs.  I was able to catch up on laundry and we did find a local Church (St. Matthew, Waxhaw Campus) on Sunday on the way to the house.  I am pretty sure it used to be an old school gym.  Multicolored flags were a unique stand in for stained glass windows.  Not sure the message though, since the foreign priest was virtually not understandable.  I only caught occasional words.  The singer was great but most of the congregation did not participate.  As I looked around during the prayers and songs probably over 75% of the people were not eve moving their lips.  I would cross that place off of my list if I were church shopping in that area. 

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